Monthly Archives: October 2011

Marriage – Remix

What is the determining factor to a successful marriage? Someone dies. “Who stays married and who doesn’t is a question not always about commitment or deep abiding love — it’s about endurance.” The Fine Line Between Marriage and Divorce Since … Continue reading

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Dear Bishop Blog # 3 – Random Confessions

Time for some random confessions.  I’m jonesing for that fix that can only come from a post-repentance high. Dear Bishop: Am I racist, Bishop?  I’m really attracted to Caucasians with Asian-looking eyes, but to Asians with more rounded eyes. I … Continue reading

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What Are You Doing?

My six week level-one Improv class just finished up and I’m moving on to level-two! The classes are a safe, fun way to practice being “in the moment” and not editing my every thought. During the classes, we essentially participate … Continue reading

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One Last Word on Mormons and Christianity

I know I’m full of advice (or just full of it), but here’s another little hint for my Mormon friends… Declaring that you are better, “fuller,” or more true than the very folks you are trying to persuade to let … Continue reading

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Coming out of a Closet

Apparently earlier this week was National Coming Out Day. Who knew? My blog is obviously a more reactive project than one where I’m on top of current events. Otherwise I would have had this post ready to publish that day. … Continue reading

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Cult, Shmult (10 Friendly Suggestions)

Personally I find evangelical Christianity every bit the cult that Mormonism is, so the current wrangling over whether Mormonism is sufficiently Christian or not is little bit like Star Trek fans arguing with Star Wars fans over which series is … Continue reading

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An Outsider Looking In

As a former LDS missionary, I found the following observations to be fascinating insights from a blogger currently speaking with the LDS missionaries in her area. SmorgZone relates a 3  part (so far) tale of her conversations with the missionaries … Continue reading

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The Good Ones

Contrary to the impression I may have given by what I’ve posted previously, by coming out and leaving my previous belief system, I HAVE had positive, rewarding and nurturing experiences with: Family Friends Acquaintances Here are some of the good … Continue reading

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The Atheist is a Mormon Tabernacle Choir Fan

Five years ago if you had told me that I’d one day spend about $10 downloading Mormon Tabernacle Choir songs and then drive an hour listening to them while feeling a burning in my bosom and crying (good tears) I … Continue reading

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A Life in Sepia Tones

Imagine if you will that at 19 years old you make a lifelong commitment to a way of coloring your life. From that point on every activity, every friendship you develop, every family choice you nurture and every goal in … Continue reading

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