Monthly Archives: December 2010

Why I Won’t Return to Mormonism

I was invited to guest blog on Latayne C. Scott as part of her series on “Why I Won’t Return to Mormonism.”  My guest blog is reason #170 posted earlier today.  I’ve also posted a copy of the post below: … Continue reading

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You, You Are Real

What if the truth rocks your world upside-down? What if it makes you question EVERYTHING? Sometimes the truth literally sets people free. Even more than untimely justice, I find exoneration to touch such a deep, primal cathartic bone in me … Continue reading

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Paradise Found

The Premise: Apostates who leave the LDS faith will find that they are all  given over to vile desires, wandering without an anchor in the world, unsuccessful in life and most of all terribly, terribly unhappy. For Example: When I … Continue reading

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Favorites

I have a hard time picking favorites. I don’t really have a monumental favorite color, a favorite movie, or a favorite book.  In the past year I’ve had 2 identical experiences regarding this… I forget a password to some web … Continue reading

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Fool Me Thrice

I originally wanted to post this as a comment to the blog, The Liberal Agnostic “Patriarchal Blessings” but it was too long.  Still, I thought it deserved to be told, so I’m posting it here.  For those who don’t know … Continue reading

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Membership Cards and Privileges

Warning: Stereotypes and generalizations used recklessly and with unapologetic abandon below. Read with caution. A joke passed around is that there’s a gay membership card. You earn your “Gay Card” by behaving in stereotypical gay ways such as: • Attending … Continue reading

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A Cubic Zirconia Life

One of my mantras in the last 5 years has been my repetition of the words “authentic” and “genuine” to describe the benefits of leaving my religion and coming out.  For some reason, we human beings like the real thing, … Continue reading

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GAYDAR: Outside Persona vs. Inner Truth

Why was I able to successfully present myself as heterosexual to those closest to me and yet my homosexuality was apparently obvious to everyone else? Act I, Scene 1 A friend of mine, Cath, and I had run into each … Continue reading

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“But I’m Still Awesome”

My secret guilty pleasure… Reality TV. I’ve loved it ever since MTV’s “Real World” started it back in the early 90′s.  Then when “Survivor” and “Amazing Race” came in and added the game show element I was hooked.  I’m a … Continue reading

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